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Messages-The Communication Skills Book, Matthew McKay, Ph.D., Martha Davis, PhD., Patrick Fanning
It s hard to defend against the anger & disapproval expressed in negative metamessages The attack is often so subtle that you aren t aware of exactly how you ve been hurt The basic function of metamessages is to say something covertly that you re afraid to say directly. Since metamessage attack is covert, there is little chance of overt retaliation.
These subtle whispering sneer attacks, & verbal barbs attacks may work best when done repeatedly, & after a person been loosened up with a more overt type of harassment such as noise campaigns, collisions, crowding, & sensitivity tactics. Within a conversation, certain weighted words can be emphasized. Volume, tone & tempo can be changed so that some words are slightly louder & spoken longer than the others. This can completely change the meaning of a message.
The following is a quotation regarding imbedded questions & suggestions as outlined in the book, Patterns Of The Hypnotic Techniques Of Milton H. Erickson, M.D., by NLP experts Richard Bandler & John Grinder. The example at the bottom titled Indirect Imbedded Command is exactly as it appears on page 173, where the weighted words (suggestions) that are to be emphasized when spoken are bolded. Note: When Erickson speaks of the dominant & nondominant hemisphere, he is referring to the conscious & unconscious mind respectively.
Patterns of Hypnotic Techniques of Milton H. Erickson, M.D. Richard Bandler & John Grinder
“They very often are a presupposition of some other command and serve to distract the dominant hemisphere by having it utilize the internal dialog These imbedded questions are most effective when they are stacked together to maximally distract the dominant hemisphere.
Imbedded commands serve the purpose of making suggestions to the client indirectly and, thereby, making it difficult to resist in any way…
These are most effective when they are also marked analogically by emphasizing the command and by looking intently at the listener, if their eyes are open.”
“Indirect Imbedded Command: “My friends tell me to feel comfortable and to loosen up when we are out on the town.”"(4)
Below is an example of how groups use these suggestions to harass people. Bolded words indicate ones that are emphasized.
Situation:
You ve been blitzed with noise campaigns, crowding & collisions on your way to the bus stop. You feel like you ve been through a minefield & have been hit multiple times (you have). Your heart is pumping. You sit down on the bus begin to relax. A couple sits down across from you & begin a conversation. You overhear bits & pieces of it.
Person 1: His car isn t working.
You: You think, My car is in the shop.
Person 1: They think it s the battery.
You: What a coincidence, my car is getting a new battery, you say to yourself.
Now that they have your attention, the conversation unfolds like this
Person 1: I saw him last week, his car looks bad.
Person 2: That s HORRIBLE What s wrong with it?Person 1: It just keeps
breaking down.
Person 2: I don t want to be in that car in case it should just flip out!
Person 1: That s insane!
Person 2: I hate to see him like that.
Person 1: He s crazy for keeping it. He knows it just keeps breaking down.Person 2: I know
he is. It just broke down so many times
Person 1: Not to be paranoid, but he should just give up on it.Person 2: You re not
being paranoid, but I don’t trust that thing on the highway.
Person 1: Is that crazy or what, is that being insane?
Person 2: he s nuts for keeping it. I told him he s crazy.
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Noise campaigns All targets of Organized Stalking are quite familiar with noise campaigns. Basically, there will be a steady stream of noise consisting of a rotation of various types of disturbances around your house. This noise may even follow you wherever you go. This includes car doors slamming, people coming/going, people yelling, car alarms, horns, tires screeching, banging, engines revving, cars beeping, constant construction, lawn mowers, snow blowers, etc.(7, 101, 200) Your neighbors will probably be bribed with free home repairs that will result in a very noisy construction process.(7) An ongoing noise campaign appears to be most effective. Like the collisions & cut-offs, these noises are done to startle you & keep you uncomfortable.
For instance, there will be doors slamming for a few moments, then a motorcycle will drive by & rev its engine outside of your house. After that you ll have someone mowing the lawn. Then there will be alarms going off. After that you ll hear a loud crowd of people walk by your house. You may then hear fire or ambulance sirens. Then there are hammering & sawing sounds. Then you ll hear car alarms being turned on/off in succession multiple times from multiple vehicles around your house. After that it will switch back to car alarms & horns. Then drilling, & doors slamming.
Often, activity such as noise will be synchronized with you coming, going or doing some other type of activity.(7) For instance you may hear ambulance, fire engine sirens or beeps as you leave. Noises made as you leave also appear to serve as a form of communication to alert group members in the area to begin pursuit.
Terrorist Stalking in America, David Lawson
Group members will drive by the target s residence honking their horns, squealing their tires & making whatever other noise they can… you might see a work crew working on a certain floor and making a lot of noise. If you look to see what they have done after they have left, you will see that they haven’t done anything.
Chronic exposure to even low-level noise is considered a hazard that has been known to produce adverse physiological & psychological health effects.(314, 316, 317) Prolonged expose to noise can produce high blood pressure, a rise in cholesterol, damage to the circulatory, cardiovascular, gastrointestinal, & musculoskelatal systems.(315, 26)
If you re targeted & pregnant or plan on having a baby, you may want to think twice. Noise has been known to cause hearing loss & growth disturbances in a fetus, & can lead to birth defects.(318, 319) Just as the fabricated cut-offs are likened to getting slapped, these noises are the equivalent of being repeatedly shocked. There is no question that these low-intensity neutralization tactics are acts of extreme violence.
Online
People
Online harassment appears to be another part of the harassment package. If you have a website devoted to Organized Stalking you may have people emailing you to flame you, or claiming that they are victims & asking for support with the intention of discrediting you. You may receive unsolicited email that parallels a current event in your life.
Again, surveillance is used primarily for harassment. Or you may receive covert insults & threats. If you join a support group, you may also receive harassment via threads posted on message boards. Like other mediums of harassment, the topics of these threads may be about events that are unfolding in your personal life, as well as threats or insults covertly directed at you. This will probably happen repeatedly by the same person or people.
They may also employ some Gaslighting, or Jacketing tactics. Jacketing was often used during Cointelpro to make genuine activists look like informants.(10) Some internet groups which help stalking victims are heavily populated with perpetrators posing as victims.(7) Some of these perpetrators seem to be very vocal & popular members of these support groups. It seems that this a damage-control mechanism put in place to corral people, manage them to some